This guy im interested in, seems to like me but cant exactly tell since we dont see each other often.?
Question by Tweety Pie: This guy im interested in, seems to like me but cant exactly tell since we dont see each other often.?
We worked in the same company. He’s Asian and not based in Phils. He’s with the Team who travels to countries to help in our company’s project to standardize the way we conduct business. We met last August, our line of work doesn’t allow us to have any interface but there’s this one Meeting where his dept and ours needed to work together on this specific task. We started chatting since then, not related to work by the way 🙂 We share the same religious beliefs and talked about it most of the time and talked about books we’ve read and music we like. He normally comes to PH every month (as far as i know) and ever since we met, every time he’s here we get to see each other, which is uncommon since before we met he always goes to our other office where most of his business contacts are. And now he makes sure i know he’s coming on what specific week. He would from time to time ask how my day was, or how my morning is so far.. or hows my weekend….Not many guys ask that if they’re not interested right?? He’s a busy person always in Tele-cons and meetings and every now and then he would send me a message and we’d start chatting. A few months back my dad fell ill and eventually passed away. His trip happen to be on the week of my dad’s wake and the most unexpected thing happened, He called me up in my mobile, he was using a globe number so i didnt expect it to be him, until i started to speak with my native tounge and he said “im sorry???” so i realized im talking to him!!! and everytime he’s in the country he would call me with that number to tell me he’s on his way to the office and would ask whether there’s any available workstation in the floor where im working..Remember that we dont belong to the same Dept :))))
His business contact began asking my boss what he’s doing here,,,seems like they’re beginning to wonder why he travels to the PH often than what’s needed. And why he’s working in our Floor,, since there’s a provision for their dept in a different floor. Last month when he was here he asked whether I and the rest of the team i belong to will be free for dinner, but my boss and other teammates did not come saying that the invitation was for me and not really for them since he didnt ask my boss directly.. we ended up dining just the two of us 🙂 the place i thought of is somewhere near the hotel where he’s staying but guess what he suggested another place also known for good restos but might take about 2KMs from our workplace, so i brought my car 🙂 after two days we went out again, i wouldnt call it a date i just accompanied him to buy some stuff and then had dinner afterwards. There were several instances where we keep bumping into each other, i dont know maybe because we dont want to be too close to each other yet not too far. There was one time in the office where he touched my back after i gave him some food and drinks, since he couldnt get it for himself because he’s stuck in a telecon.
I’ve read a lot about body languages but i cant draw any solid conclusion since i dont see him often and last month was the first time we went out alone. Can you tell??? is he just super nice or is there something more to it? please help…i really really like him already 🙂
Thanks donna, i actually thought of asking him but im not sure whether the timing is right for that as of yet. I also dont want to end the friendship that we have, but i sure hope someday we’d share a more intimate relationship 🙂
Best answer:
Answer by donna d
i would say he is interested in you.the point is it would be a long distance relationship and i don’t know if he is ready for that you need to let him know that you like him more than friends.your a big girl you can do it and he will give you an honest answer.at least then you would know and whatever the outcome you could move on with your life if it is with him or not.
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