HEEELLPPP!!! RELATIONSHIP CRISIS!!!?
Question by Your face: HEEELLPPP!!! RELATIONSHIP CRISIS!!!?
Okay so I’m 15 and my boyfriend is 17, and I’m about 98% sure that his parents hate me. His dad married a short Asian BITCH (sorry if anyone reading this is from that race, i’m not saying all Asians are bitches, but she is.) when my boyfriend was about 8 I think, and like I said, I’m pretty sure they hate me.
Anthony (my boyfriend) has been doing martial arts with his dad since he was 8, and now that he’s older and actually has dreams and has a life he doesn’t want to do it because well he never really had an interest in it.
I guess they’re blaming him not wanting to do it on me.
But anyway, Anthony’s dad has always made Anthony do what his dad wants to do, like no matter what Anthony wants to do his dad doesn’t want him to do it. For example, Anthony wants to be a film director, but his dad wants him to be into music, then Anthony got offered a recording contract! But his dad says his music is crappy and a waste of time, and wants Anthony to sit down and watch a crap load of B-movies.
Now Anthony has a job which is right down the street from my house, so what he does is, he used to ride the bus home with me (he kept his work clothes here), get changed, go to work, come back when he gets off, then change back, and usually he leaves some clothes here so he doesn’t have to carry a plastic bag with him where ever he goes, but his step-mom decided to FREAK OUT about that and CALL MY MOM! She basically called her saying that she was a bad parent and she needs to start being more over protective about me. Anthony has been spending so much time with me lately because my dad died almost a month ago, and he’s been here helping me keep my mind off of it. So now, since he has been over here “too much”, his step mom decided he’s not allowed to come over unless he has above a C average (which I completely understood), and he can only stay until 5:30, which I don’t even get off of my bus until 3:15, and on weekends he’s not allowed to come over until 4, because for the past several weekends he has been coming over at about 6:30 in the morning and not leaving until 11:30 at night… he’s only been coming over that early because if he didn’t than and he actually got to sleep in his dad wouldn’t let him go until about 12, then say he can’t when he’s getting ready to walk out the door cause they have to go to martial arts!! IT’S RIDICULOUS!!
I really don’t know what I should do about all of this.
Someone please attempt to help!
Best answer:
Answer by Sofia
his parents are ridiculous but anthony sounds like a great guy. he needs to start standing up for himself and not let his psycho parents control his life. he also needs to decide what he wants in life and just go for it. whatever he decides you need to stand by him and support his every choice.
good luck with everything. i hope it all works out for the best.
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