Q&A: Will virgo man ever give me another chance?
Question by flower power: Will virgo man ever give me another chance?
Okay, I’m a pisces girl; a full blown pisces girl by the way. So here’s what I need to know: Will Virgo ever give me another chance? After reading the following, I’d love to hear some honest advice about this situation. It maybe long, but please bare with…
I’m in my early 30’s and so is he, in fact we were high school sweethearts, plus he was my “first”. Our relationship ended as I was one year older than him and I was moving into to big wide world, and he had his final year he needed to concentrate on. We had a great relationship back in the day and neither of us felt any animosity towards one another once the relationship ended.
Thanks to a certain social networking service, we became “friends” again, and after a few inbox messages, he invited me to an art exhibition he was holding close to my home. I, of course jumped at the chance as I have longed to see him again after so long. He has always had a special place in my heart, always!!
So I go along to his art show, to which he expressed his appreciation for. Mentioned I looked amazing (numerous times) After the show, he invited me out for dinner with his friends and his family. I accepted politely. I didn’t want to impose myself, but he insisted.
During dinner, he hardly spoke to me, but his talkative friend (another old school mate) kept me company. After dinner, Mr Virgo asked me to head into town with him and his friends. Again, I accepted. I was certain at this stage he was interested in me. In fact I knew as soon as I saw him we had still had a connection. Us pisces just know.
He was nervous when he did talk to me, which I thought was adorable, and so for most the night he left his friends to entertain me. But he couldn’t take his eyes off me, you know that Virgo stare? *trembles with delight*
I may need to mention here that whilst I was talking to his mate, his mate said “Mr. Virgo is checking you out” I replied “Well, we use to date… maybe it’s the old flame thing” to which he said “Well, be careful, he has herpes” to which I said “that’s a terrible thing to say about a friend” to which he said “You’re a nice girl, just looking out for you” – I didn’t believe him, I don’t know why I just didn’t. PLUS, these guys joke around all the time… it’s what they do.
Ultimately we had a great night… we hit the dance floor, had a few drinky poos, but the night was heading on so I said I was going to leave and catch a taxi home. He says “Maybe, you’d like to come home with me?” So I say “Yes, Of course” – the sexual tension was INTENSE, and we both knew it. So we get back to the place he was staying at (Mr. Virgo actually lives 9 hrs drive away), and as expected the sex was AMAZING!! We both expressed how great it was. In fact he expressed during and after how much he loved ‘F#…..” me. He even opened up and told me some of his fantasies etc… *sigh* He also asked that whenever he came to visit if we could get together etc… I agreed!!
Next day: I had the sorest throat in the world!!!! glands were up, ulcers on my tonsils, feeling ill in general : ( So what do I do?? I Get on the internets to get a diagnosis. What was the diagnosis?? Oral friggin Herpes!!! Panic!! So I book into the doctor to get checked. My visit to the doctor didn’t appease me at all. He said it was likely I could have contracted the virus, and it’ll take a week for results to come back.
In the mean time, I sent Mr. Virgo a very polite message, asking for him to give me a call. I wanted to know his knowledge on the matter. Mr. Virgo didn’t reply, and when he eventually did, he refused to call and went offline. I was so cross at this point, thinking he’s avoiding me because he knew he had passed on the virus and didn’t want to face the music. I may have sent him a message which could be interpreted as threatening, but for me, I was just desperate to know if I had this virus. I mean c’mon… herpes sticks with you forever!! Finally he calls and says “what’s going on? I don’t understand??” I thank him for calling and tell him my concerns. He denies any knowledge of the virus. Honestly I was so cool, calm, and collected – no anger, along with showing concern for him too. We even had a laugh, and again expressed to each other that we really enjoyed our night together – he started the “You know, I really enjoyed catching up with you” business…
I get the results back. Negative – clean as a whistle! Yeah! I email him to 1) let him know that it was just a little bit of tonsillitis, 2) asked if I could call him to apologies for freaking out that I might have had the virus. I get no response from him, instead he deletes me off this social networking service 🙁 – I was cut!! I sent one last email to him apologisng and explaining my logic on the situation and why I got mad with his absence when I needed reassurance, along with he’ll always have a special place in my heart. I also said after this message he won’t have to worry about me bothering him again. It’s been a
week and half, and I’ve heard nothing from him.
So, peoples, how do I reverse any damage that’s been done. I fully understand from his perspective why he deleted me, but I also want him to understand my perspective. Or, did he just use me? : ( Advise me now please.
Best answer:
Answer by ChicVirgo
wow how long did you take to write for you to post this question? lol oh hunni i totally feel for you and wow what a heating story you’ve told us here! good for you, i always knew pisces and virgo has a connection is some way, only i think the crush i had on a pisces guy could be gay! i’m sad!
Anyways, back to you, just give him some space and i think he was a little scared that he might have harmed you in anyway possble for him to avoid you. I think he is scared to feel that he has something and you know us Virgos we worry a lot of things including our health. Good thing you’ve visited the doctors first before confronting him.
So maybe later in the weeks yes, try to drop him a message, tell him ur all clear of things and it was a silly mishaps. of course apologise to him for freaking him out too!! Give him time and he will get back with you ok? don’t worry about him, just next time dont freak him out lol! Ignore his mate, he might fancy you too for him to say that such things..
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