How can I be accept and be confident in my appearance?
Question by Terrence Mann: How can I be accept and be confident in my appearance?
I don’t think that I’m unattractive or anything ( though I was told that I was once when I was 13 and it has plagued me a bit ) but I just don’t feel that I’m attractive enough to girls. I’m already a shy and introverted person and I just don’t even bother sometimes trying to ask girls out b/c I just automatically assume that they wouldn’t be interested in me. When I go out with friends I talk to girls but it’s never anything serious. Plus the thing with me is I’m open up with more with people that I know, and I all ways feel like people are judging me or something, so that makes me just shut down to a degree. Then it doesn’t help matters when I always see and hear girls gush over guys that are super cute to them, and that I’m 23 and have never been in a relationship before. I don’t compare myself to those guys or anything but my confidence drops though when I hear girls talk about guys that are super cute to them. Currently I’m in art school studying audio production ( I would like to be a record producer and recording artist ), and next year I plan to move to L.A. to pursue acting and music. I also already have a degree in Marketing Management in case my dreams fall through. I’m a sweet, kind, compassionate, caring, smart, funny, reliable, sincere, creative, honest, trust-worthy, considerate, patient, friendly, laid-back, and giving person. So I should have confidence in myself and looks. I do to a degree but something is always holding me back.
I’m told all the time that I’m going to make some lucky woman a great bf, husband, and a great father to my kids someday. I totally know that I can be someone special to a girl but I just need help stepping out of my shell and being more comfortable with my looks. I don’t want to go through life apprehensive when it comes to approaching women and end up alone. The biggest dream I have in life is getting married and having a family. I won’t until I over come my apprehension. I know what it feels like to love others, b/c when I love I love strong but I don’t know what its like to have the feelings that I have for someone returned. I’d really appreciate some advice. Sorry for the long details. God bless all of you! Take care!
Best answer:
Answer by B Moca
just to boost your confidence you should tell yourself in the mirror ” i love you and im a amazing person” it maybe sound weird and stupid but once you try it, it will help. try changing your swag or something lol most girl get attract to the most ugliest guys in school because of how they carry them self. to get a girl to have a conversation with you talk about her and only her ask her question about herself but nothing personal. says she pretty, and you like her smile. one day gods going to send you someone Special just be patient
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